A field guide to growing up without growing apart

Naughty Princesses

The Long-Distance Marriage

What’s your stance on long-distance relationships? Can they ever work? I didn’t think so, until I tried it, three years ago when I was dating my now-husband. I won’t lie: it was hard. We relied on Skype dates once or twice a day and occasionally […]

An Aerial Weakness

Hello.  My name is the Little Merskank, and I have a problem.  A problem with flying. So, it all started about a year ago.  I have always enjoyed flying—seeing the ground go by below, all that free time to yourself, free bubbly beverages.  But this […]

Living with the Parents, a 20-Something Nightmare?

I’ve been working on a Master’s in Teaching for the past 18 months, and the end is in sight. The last thing I need to do to accomplish this goal is complete 16 weeks of student teaching, and that pursuit has led me halfway around […]

Top Ten Musicals Every Twenty-Something Needs to See

Hey kids! Sorry for the lack of posts. We’ve been busy over the holidays, starting new jobs, planning new adventures, saying goodbye to husbands, showing off for guests. And I wish I could say we’re back for good but I know my year is starting […]

Christmas Moments

I’ve been dreading Christmas. Usually I love Christmas, but this year my husband is off working on a ship and I am spending Christmas alone with my parents. To me this sounded like a recipe for disaster. Not because I hate my parents, but because […]

To Reply All, or Not to Reply All?

That is the question. Okay, perhaps it’s not THE question, but it’s a question I had never really considered until I started working in an office. Now my work life largely consists of sitting at a desk sending emails, reading emails, or replying to emails […]

Can Men and Women Be Friends?

Man I love menfolk. It’s not that I don’t love women (female empowerment forever!), but I also just really (really) enjoy men, and as a result of spending the last few weekends in the company of more of the opposite sex than usual, I’m reminded […]

Living with Monks

So a few months ago I moved house.    My lease was ending and my house-mates were moving away, so I needed a new place.  Luckily, my friend (read: monk 1), suggested that I could live at his house.  I had been there a couple times […]

The Fairest One of All

Not only is today Thanksgiving, but it is also Snow Whore’s birthday. In honor of our fair friend, here’s a surprise post to show her how much we love and appreciate her! So today Snow is turning 25! I can’t believe it! I still have […]

We’re Grateful

It’s Thanksgiving! And there is no better time to thank all the wonderful people and bloggers who’ve inspired and supported us over our first year of blogging. We’re so appreciative for this online community and incredibly shocked by the amount of love we’ve received from […]

Can You Be Friends With an Ex?

I woke up this morning to an email from an old… flame, and I… I don’t really know how I want to process it. Really long story sort of short (read: remember that data project I was working on?), he and I became close during […]

Just Say No to Polygamy

The other day my husband wanted to tell me about an “interesting conversation” he’d had with a coworker. Apparently, during a casual conversation about their religious and cultural differences (Christian/Western vs. Muslim/Arab), the coworker had asked my husband if he would ever consider marrying a […]